Amy and I saw Brother Bear today. We had a real good time together. I just love laughing and goofing around with her. I was especially touched when she curled up on my lap and snugged with me for the last part of the movie. Again, one of thoes times I could just die right there. Connecting with my daughter in these difficult times seems even more important than ever. She needs to know that I love her and that Daddy and Mommy not getting along isn't her fault AT ALL! It's not like Deb and I are raising our voices and yelling at each other (thank goodness for that). It just that I'm sure Amy picks up that there is something not right between Mommy and Daddy. I think that it's so important to make Amy priority #1 right now and not withdraw from her into a fight over our own selfish wants and desires.